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If it wasn’t the first time Matt appeared at our door, it was close. Halloween had arrived. The doorbell rang and there was Matt, held by his mother Ruth, and wonderfully adorned as a sunflower. All would have been well except that I, having always dressed for Halloween myself, had cut a couple of holes…